Why Modesty Matters for Christian Women

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Might modesty matter?   Is what we wear really an issue?

From both my reading of the Bible, and the witness of the Holy Spirit within me, I believe that it does matter, it is an issue.  Also, I believe that to a large extent, the clothing that the fashion and retail industry promotes and provides for women and girls nowadays is becoming increasingly more sensual and immodest.  Consequently, as Christian women, we will each need to think and pray through this matter for ourselves and any family members that we are responsible for.  Let me explain to you why this is so.

But at the outset let me just give you the basic definitions of modesty:-

 “Behaviour, manner, or appearance intended to avoid impropriety or indecency.”  Continue reading

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The Breath of God


I just want to share with you this poem I wrote many years ago, whilst living in a large, industrial town in England, when there was very little opportunity for me to get into the countryside that I so desperately loved.  I was obviously missing such countryside & struggling with how mundane my life was with the daily life of bringing up a family of three little boys.  I was so desperate for the wide spaces of the countryside and for fresh air and freedom that I actually sat outside my back door writing this poem & even stayed sitting there as it began to rain (I just got an umbrella & carried right on writing)! 


I long for the mountains, the rivers and trees,

The smell of the pine in the cool evening breeze.

I long for the peace and the solitude there,

Where all is becalmed by the cool mountain air. Continue reading

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Fellowship During Apostasy: If not in the Churches – then where?

I have just recently discovered an interesting blog called “End Times Prophecy Report” and just wanted to share this short article by Jeremiah Jameson on the difficulties of finding any believers with whom to have true fellowship with. He makes some interesting points and he has written many more interesting things too on his blog.

He says:-

“The inhabitants of the churches are a mixed bag: some are deceiving; some obviously know they are deceiving but do not know they are being deceived; and some are merely blind being led by the blind.

Unfortunately for this last group (who enjoy the camaraderie and feeling of “belonging”), the blind end up in the same place as the blind leaders.”

And also:-

“The complaint of “no fellowship” is a common one. So is the complaint of “I don’t know of any good churches.”

Apostasy has a ready answer: “There are no perfect churches.”

Of course, no one is speaking of perfection–except the apostates who are anything but. Apostasy hides behind the “perfection” excuse, stalling for time.

So with whom is one to fellowship?

With the same people one has ALWAYS had fellowship with: true believers; the Body of Christ.”

I just love his practical advice:-

NOTE: If one does not presently know any true Christians, share the gospel and convert someone.  Then, fellowship with the new convert.”

I have just given someone a copy of John’s Gospel and am praying much for this unbeliever to become a sister in the Lord so that I can follow this advice.

You may also like to read his article on there being only a few Christians left in the end times prior to the return of the Lord Jesus Christ, which you can find here.

End Times Prophecy Report

NO FELLOWSHIP WITH UNRIGHTEOUSNESS: What concord has Christ with Belial?NO FELLOWSHIP WITH UNRIGHTEOUSNESS: What concord has Christ with Belial?

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?  And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.”

2 Corinthians 6:14-16


This writer sounds a lot of warnings concerning the apostasy which has totally taken over the churches. Besides what one can see with one’s eyes and hear with one’s ears, the Bible has plenty to say about the condition of the churches in the end…

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Royal Wedding or The Marriage of the Lamb – Will you be attending either of these?

royal-wedding-3411338__480Yesterday in England there was a Royal Wedding between an English prince and an American commoner.  There was much pomp and ceremony and many people got caught up in the “royal fever” of the day, as you can well imagine.  But not I.  I just used the beautiful sunny day to weed my garden whilst thinking and praying about my own preparation in becoming worthy to be part of that glorious, future bride of Christ in His eternal Kingdom.  Let me explain a little more as I contrast this royal wedding to that future event. Continue reading

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God So Loved The World


Occasionally I like to make up my own praise songs to the Lord and thought I would share them with you now and again.  My Christian life is both one of worshipping the living God and the Lord Jesus Christ, as well as warning my fellow men and women of the dangers of following the wrong paths.  Life is a balance and I want to try to reflect that here at my blog.  I hope you like my little song, although as I am unable to write the music I trust you can make your own tune up or simply enjoy it as a poem.


For God So Loved The World


For God so loved the world

That His son to us He gave

Whoever shall believe in Him

He shall truly save.

For God so loved the world

That to all that do believe

In humility and honesty

His forgiveness they receive. Continue reading

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A Storm-Proof Christian Life – The Ultimate Key

Taking A Closer Look at the Wise & Foolish Builders


I was just remembering many years ago when my son and I enjoyed building ourselves a little sand island on a beach and watching the tide come in around us.  It was a really fun thing to do with my child, to see how long it took for the sea to demolish our little building upon the sand – and it wasn’t very long, I can tell you! Recently however, this has given me cause to consider Jesus’ teaching regarding the wise and foolish men who built their respective houses upon rock or upon sand.  This is of course, a basic Bible story that is recorded in the gospels of both Matthew and Luke.  This is often taught as a children’s story (with simple songs) but it was initially spoken to adults as the culmination to the Lord’s first publicly recorded sermon – the one frequently referred to as the Sermon on the Mount.  As such, I believe that it is certainly worthy of our time in considering once again what the true meaning of this sermon ending could teach us today. Continue reading

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Toronto “blessing?” – My personal letter to warn other believers


I have decided to share publicly a letter that I actually wrote in 2005 to some of the Christians at that time that I knew and cared about.  It was, and still is, a very serious subject regarding strange things that were occurring within a “Christian church” that I had attended.  It took me nine months to discern and extricate myself from the said church, albeit the last weeks were simply to experience the leaders of the movement personally before exiting for good.

I have been greatly saddened of late, to discover that people who I had thought would be discerning Christians are in fact now, over a decade later, working alongside the very same leaders that I was warning about then, collaborating on projects in the basement, on the fringes of this other church, and the people are no doubt, unaware of the true nature of the spirit that works in their midst.  The church I write about in this letter is still stating on their website that “impartation” is one of their things!  If alarm bells don’t go off in your thinking at this word then you have some serious Bible reading, praying and research still to do.

My hope and my plea is for all Christian people to wake up from their trusting, somnambulant state and to pray and beseech the Lord God for true spiritual discernment and wisdom.  We live in days of increasing wickedness on all sides and tolerating it continually amongst the churches will only lead to a deadening of your own ability to hear the Lord’s true voice. Continue reading

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I was blessed to find the following article on a blog called, Famine In The Land, by Rick Becker.  I have copied his article in the hope that it may help many who are confused or enmeshed in the false teachings that are rife in Christian circles these days.  He has put a lot of work into this and thus saved me the job that I felt I ought to attempt.  I am so greatly concerned with the fact that false teachers prey on those in desperate circumstances, such as those with relationship and health issues.  My hope is that this article will help you to want to follow the True and only Lord Jesus Christ and to break free from false teachers and hirelings, whatever that may cost you.

Rick’s article below

The greatest threat to the church are not those who oppose the gospel, but those who distort it.  Many in the visible church are fearful that the growth of other religions, godless governments, and the ongoing calamities of this world pose a threat to the church.  These serve to distract from the greatest threat which comes from within – false teachers.  Jesus described them as ravenous wolves in sheep’s clothing –  they look like sheep but feed on sheep.  How do these false teachers manage to captivate and deceive millions within the visible church?

1. They are Established in the visible church.

The false teachers that present a very real and present danger are not those living on some isolated plot of land with a few hundred followers.  To the contrary, they are the ones revered in the industrial evangelical complex with thousands of followers.  Continue reading

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Jesus Death & Resurrection – Mary’s Perspective


An original poem by Helen at Grainofwheatblog

Mary Stayed Weeping


As I stood by the cross I watched Him die.

I loved Him so much that I wanted to cry.

Such pain & such sorrow, I felt such grief,

For my Lord who had given me such relief;

From darkness & horrors & demonic dreams,

Now all I could hear were our silent screams.


Continue reading

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Easter, Passover or Neither? Does it Matter?

easter-2072387_1280Have you ever thought about why we buy chocolate eggs at Easter time?  Have you ever wondered why Easter moves around the calendar each year?  Have you ever pondered if Christians should celebrate Passover instead of Easter?  Have you ever even thought about why it is called “Easter”?  I know that I have had such thoughts.  So, I have started to do a little reading up about these things to try to get a bit of clarity on these matters for myself.

Now before I delve into the history and practices of Easter, I want to say that the bible tells us that:-

“One person esteems one day above another; another esteems every day alike. Let each be fully convinced in his own mind.  He who observes the day, observes it to the Lord; and he who does not observe the day, to the Lord he does not observe it.”  Romans 14:5-6

Essentially, we are to help to edify other believers, rather than put a stumbling block in each other’s paths.  We each need to read our bibles prayerfully to decide which days we observe to the Lord and which we do not.  But with an enquiring mind and a humble spirit I am confident that the Lord God will gently lead and teach each of us what pleases Him.  Continue reading

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